Our daughter is about 3 1/2. She has had constipation issues most of the years. Our pediatrician even said that with kids who are like this, she doesn’t expected be trained until 4 or later. My husband also has issues with his bowels. I wet the bed in my later years as well and still now I have issues holding my bowels in. It comes up randomly, just like hers do. Yes I am frustrated that I am still buying diapers and or pull ups at this age. But what am I going to do? She has issues. We are trying to get her to use the potty more but don’t want her to be scared of it. When people say why isn’t she potty trained yet I just say she has some constipation issues and it is hard for her. I mean it is the truth. It might not change for another year or so. Then she could be wetting the bed shortly after that. It is what it is. What I don’t appreciate is when people say well she is gonna start having to use it. You don’t want her to be 7 and still in diapers. In my head I’m like yea I know. Your kid was in underwear a long time ago. She doesn’t have a kid with these problems so she doesn’t see it as rude. Have you parents come across this with training and such?